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  • How My Mom’s Equal Love for Prince & Michael Jackson Shaped My Musical Journey

    How My Mom’s Equal Love for Prince & Michael Jackson Shaped My Musical Journey

    Growing up, my house was a hub of passionate musical discourse. My mom always felt that Prince and Michael Jackson were too different to be compared—each a singular force in their own right. I vividly remember the Sundays after church when my father would turn on the radio for our ride home. Back then, before Verzuz TV took over the cultural scene in 2020, Herb “The Cool Gent” Kent hosted a segment on his radio show that pitted the two icons against each other.

    On those afternoons, Kent would spark a friendly yet fiery competition. He’d play the hits of both artists, occasionally taking requests from listeners, and invite calls to vote on who reigned supreme that day. It was a real-time, interactive debate on the airwaves—much like the spirited Verzuz battles of today. I’d listen, transfixed, as the music filled our car, my fingers snapping in time with the beat, caught up in the infectious energy of the contest.

    Yet, while the radio show was a hit among many fans, my mom wasn’t quite as enthusiastic about the comparisons. To her, the debate was superficial. She believed that focusing solely on aspects like dynamic dancing, clever adlibs, and the fact that both artists soared to prominence during the 1980s missed the essence of their artistry. In her eyes, comparing such distinct styles reduced the complexity of what made each musician unique. Nevertheless, despite her reservations about the comparisons, she never diminished her love for the music—she embraced it, appreciating each artist’s contributions in their own right.

    That balanced, if not contrasting, outlook has always influenced my own relationship with music. It reminds me that while debates can be fun, the true magic lies in experiencing the art in all its diverse forms, free from simple labels or competitions. As I explore the complexities of modern music trends on Sacred Rhythms, I carry those memories with me—a reminder that every note has its own story, and sometimes, the beauty of music is best appreciated without comparing it to another.

    Discussion :

    1. Do you have any memories of family debates or discussions about music? How did they shape your musical taste?
    2. How do you feel about comparing two iconic artists? Is it possible to appreciate their unique contributions without pitting them against each other?
    3. In your view, what aspects of an artist’s work are most important to consider—style, influence, innovation, or something else?
  • When Clean Versions Fail: A Personal Reflection on Explicit Content in Music

    When Clean Versions Fail: A Personal Reflection on Explicit Content in Music

    Rapper Paul Wall released his third single, Girl, which samples “Oh Girl” by The Chi-Lites from his album The People’s Champ. The song peaked at No. 35 on the Billboard Hot 100 and stayed on the chart for 16 weeks. I was completely captivated by the track—the flow and delivery, the imagery of luxury and a carefree lifestyle, the soulful sample, the driving 808 bassline, and the dreaminess of the sound. I’d sit in the passenger seat of my father’s work truck, snapping my fingers like an auntie, moving and grooving to the beat. The radio play just wasn’t enough—I needed to hear it on demand.

    I finally mustered the courage to ask my father for the CD so I could listen whenever I wanted. His response was both humorous and telling:
    “You want me to buy a CD so you can listen to one song?”
    “Yes!” I replied without hesitation.

    One random day, my dad pulled into a Walmart parking lot and, after a brief wait in the car, he returned—not just with the Paul Wall album, but also with Ne-Yo’s debut album, In My Own Words (a true treat for any Ne-Yo head). I was ecstatic. However, when I popped the CD in, I skipped straight to track 14, only to find it was the clean version—the one played on radio and TV. Confused and a little disappointed, I met my father’s eyes as he said, “You didn’t think I was getting you the explicit version of this, did you?” He continued, “That’s why I went to Walmart—they don’t sell albums with parental advisory labels.”

    For me, this experience is a reminder of how times have changed. In an era where songs like WAP and Throat Baby dominate the charts, explicit content is now not just common—it’s expected. These aren’t the first sexually explicit songs to hit the charts. We’ve seen tracks like Lollipop, Cream, I Wanna [Expletive] You, Candy Shop, and Slow Motion achieve similar success. Yet, it’s still astonishing that music with such provocative content can be so widely commercialized, especially when it comes to targeting audiences beyond just the adult demographic.

    Growing up, if something wasn’t on the radio, I simply didn’t hear it. Even then, if my parents thought a song was too explicit, they’d switch the station—moving swiftly from Power 92 to V-103, sometimes even to Gospel Radio 1930, where the ministry was as much in the music as in the message.

    This brings me to the topic of “clean” versions. How clean can songs like Lollipop and WAP really get? It feels duplicitous when a track uses a child-friendly treat as a metaphor for something so overtly sexual, all the while being played on the airwaves and TV. I’m not shaming creators for their lyrical expression, but I do believe some content is meant for adults—and these artists are well aware of that. I recently saw a WAP rapper on Instagram Live promote her song, only to abruptly turn off the stream when her daughter walked in.

    The moral of the story? Shield your children from these messages and the early indoctrination into adult content. Kids deserve to be kids for as long as possible.

    Note: I’d really love to hear you guys’ thoughts and opinions to create community and dialogue, but if you’re like it’s sometimes hard to express yourself, so I created questions:

    1. How do you feel about the practice of releasing “clean” versions of songs? Do you think they dilute the original message or serve an important purpose?
    2. Have you ever been disappointed by a clean version of a song? What do you think is lost or gained in the process?
    3. In today’s music industry, explicit content is increasingly mainstream. What are your thoughts on the balance between artistic expression and the need to protect younger audiences?
    4. How do you think parental controls and radio censorship have evolved over the years? Are they still effective?
    5. Why do you think explicit content continues to be commercialized so widely? What does this say about current cultural trends and values?
    6. Do you believe that the commercial success of explicit songs influences the kind of music that gets promoted and popularized? Why or why not?
    7. What responsibility do artists have in considering the impact of their lyrics on society?
    8. How can we, as a community, encourage a balance between freedom of expression and maintaining a positive cultural influence, especially for younger listeners?

    Feel free to share your thoughts on any of these questions, and let’s start a dialogue on how we can navigate the complexities of music, culture, and personal values in today’s entertainment landscape.

  • It Won’t Stop…

    For the past four years, I’ve been on a quest to merge my lifelong passion for music with a sustainable creative livelihood. As a kid, I’d belt out Will Smith’s Get Jiggy With It from the backseat of the car, and my afternoons were filled with cartoons like The Aristocats and Dumbo. Yet, nothing compares to the transformative power of my childhood church choir. I remember those Thursday nights when my father left for rehearsals, preparing to fill Sunday mornings with soulful song. Joining the junior choir was more than a pastime—it was where I first learned about the joy of community and the discipline of artistic expression.

    Fast forward twenty years, and though the structured rehearsals have faded, the essence of that experience still resonates in every note I sing at home. Today, as I navigate an industry dominated by hip-hop, R&B, and pop—genres that often seem to celebrate fleeting trends over timeless expression—I can’t help but wonder: Where is the authenticity? How do we reclaim the soulful roots of music amid a landscape driven by commercial pressures and superficial narratives?

    In Sacred Rhythms, I invite you to explore these questions with me. Together, we’ll dive into the intersection of spirituality, entrepreneurship, and the urban pulse that shapes our musical world. Let’s challenge the status quo and rediscover what it truly means to be moved by music.